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The Truth on Life, Love and Romance entails so much more than what naturally comes to mind when you hear these words! I want to discuss any and everything people may want my advice/opinions on...and I have Lots for Men and Women!!! If you can think it, I've lived it and am Sane, Happy and FINALLY Madly in Love and not Jaded by crappy experiences life has dealt me.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

DABDA~~~~~What everyone should understand about Life!!!

In Psychology (I've had several classes) I learned what we all know you CAN NOT CHANGE ANYONE BUT YOURSELF....When anything tragic/hurtful or loss happens in Life i.e; Loss of a loved one, Divorce, Loss of a job or anything you can think of there are 5 steps that everyone will go through, although in NO particular order. DENIAL, ANGER, BARGAINING, DEPRESSION, AND FINALLY ACCEPTANCE. People can go in and out of stages and stay in one longer that another but just know all these feelings are normal. Find good friends or a therapeutic support group that can help you relieve some stress. Talking, hearing and sharing while getting honest feedback from other people who have dealt with similar situation can help you reload and get the courage you need to look out for your self!