DO people Just like being treated like Crap???

As I browse through my Face Book friends statuses and read how people are upset with their relationships, I can't help but wonder do people really realize that people treat you the way you allow them to. Period.  When you start a relationship you always want the upper hand, it's a must! You verbalize how you're going to be treated and that you are worthy of that kind of treatment because that's how you treat others. A lot of people (guys especially) don't get the "You treat me how you want others to treat you because they are pieces of you know what and have NO conscious." If you recognize this kind of behavior early on then you need to break free and RUN! Who cares if he/she's Hot, Hotness will fade over time then you're just stuck with a Jackass! Ultimately ending in a bad break up or Divorce if you are so blind and go that far...In reality the movies Stars are 10's, most of us aren't, we may have traits that are 10's...and those are the things that make a person who they are, it's called character! You want a person who you can totally be yourself around, and the other person love you no matter what...a guy or girl who is a 10 usually isn't gonna be there when you need them, because most of the time it's all about them. You want someone who puts you first and wants to take care of you through thick and thin...

DABDA~~~~~What everyone should understand about Life!!!

In Psychology (I've had several classes) I learned what we all know you CAN NOT CHANGE ANYONE BUT YOURSELF....When anything tragic/hurtful or loss happens in Life i.e; Loss of a loved one, Divorce, Loss of a job or anything you can think of there are 5 steps that everyone will go through, although in NO particular order. DENIAL, ANGER, BARGAINING, DEPRESSION, AND FINALLY ACCEPTANCE. People can go in and out of stages and stay in one longer that another but just know all these feelings are normal. Find good friends or a therapeutic support group that can help you relieve some stress. Talking, hearing and sharing while getting honest feedback from other people who have dealt with similar situation can help you reload and get the courage you need to look out for your self!

I would like to know what some of you would like to talk about????

There's so many thing's I can Blog about but, I really wanna know what others are wondering, or wanna talk about :)

Men you should make a New Year's Resolution too!

Just because you have have been together for years, etc. We still wanna hear we're beautiful on a regular basis...so Compliment her outfit, make up, the earrings she's wearing or a body part. This make us feel adored and SEXY! Just don't assume because you told us that everyday the first year, that you can stop 2,5,10 years later! We need reassurance from our Partner that you do still find us attractive...this will boost our Ego's too! WOMEN men need compliments just as we do about about anything...or thank yous for the things they do w/o having to be hounded. Relationships are give and take, but if both try to be GIVERS...Well, the possibility's are endless! Love notes on the bathroom mirror may sound corny but guys....there starts your FOREPLAY for the day!

A New Year a New Beginning...Maybe some New thinking WOMEN???

Women, Women, Women.... I have so many different male friends from all ages that have all been married varying amounts of time. They must look at me as a Guy friend to share these intimate details about their sex lives or think I can some how change their wives thinking???
This is always what I hear "My wife doesn't hardly want to have sex anymore."  I then ask why and the number one reason they give is their WIVES say they don't feel sexy anymore after a couple kids and some extra pounds...I always say "Well, what do you think about that." The number one response is I don't care I just wanna hold her and feel that closeness a married couple shares by having sex. Women...MOST men don't care if were carrying some extra weight, or you think your breast are more saggy now (they're still breast to men). Sexiness comes from INSIDE its how you carry yourself and have a playful, flirty side with your husband. Think back to the beginning, however long ago that might have been, and be THAT girl again! Don' think you're Sexy KNOW you're Sexy!!! Men love,love,love lingerie and it comes in ALL sizes....wanna cover up or accentuate something? Buy some lingerie wear a pair of Heels with it (I lifts your butt and elongates you) Plus the men really dig that!!! Text your Man during the day you have a sexy surprise when he gets home...he will be thinking about come home ALL day! Come out of the Bathroom with it on, be cooking in it when he gets home (That's a real hit) FOOD, BOOBS, and LINGERIE! All kinds of stuff is happening in their brains...LOL Men are very simple straight forward creatures they just wanna have sex, they relate sex and love like we do...Honestly! One guy said "I just don't think she loves me anymore." I talked to her and she just feels fat..."Oh I've gained 20lbs." Her Husband doesn't care and still thinks she's beautiful....so why should we care? We shouldn't but Media and Society make us think we should ALL be a size 0, most men DON'T want that, I can assure you! My guy friends say they want some meat on their woman's bones. So go outside your comfort zone in 2012 and be SEXY, feel SEXY and that my friend is exactly what your Husband will be thinking too...STOP saying I'm FAT, my Boobs are too small...Who cares? They feel in love with you, not just your outside...

Just an F.Y.I

Everything I Blog or answer questions about goes to the Archives to the lower Right, next to my picture. You can click on the Month and all the stuff will come up, click on it and then you can add/view comment...I got one on there for the GUYS!!!! Read it to them Ladies ;)

Guys this ones for YOU!

Men always think when they hear the word FOREPLAY it is directly related to going and jumping in the sack right then...This is not the case fellows! Foreplay for a woman is what you do all day, it's the little things that you think nothing of or have to be hounded to do. Taking the trash out on your way out to work, turning her car on while she gets ready for work and letting it warm up and de-icing it, jumping in the kitchen to help with dishes, stopping to pick up milk, or putting her sunglasses back in her Vehicle b/c she left them in yours and you know she will NEED them...Doing this stuff WITHOUT having to be asked makes me feel like I got a MAN who will take care of me and these things really turn a woman on! He takes care of me, I take care of him ;) Jus' sayin'