Women, Women, Women.... I have so many different male friends from all ages that have all been married varying amounts of time. They must look at me as a Guy friend to share these intimate details about their sex lives or think I can some how change their wives thinking???
This is always what I hear "My wife doesn't hardly want to have sex anymore." I then ask why and the number one reason they give is their WIVES say they don't feel sexy anymore after a couple kids and some extra pounds...I always say "Well, what do you think about that." The number one response is I don't care I just wanna hold her and feel that closeness a married couple shares by having sex. Women...MOST men don't care if were carrying some extra weight, or you think your breast are more saggy now (they're still breast to men). Sexiness comes from INSIDE its how you carry yourself and have a playful, flirty side with your husband. Think back to the beginning, however long ago that might have been, and be THAT girl again! Don' think you're Sexy KNOW you're Sexy!!! Men love,love,love lingerie and it comes in ALL sizes....wanna cover up or accentuate something? Buy some lingerie wear a pair of Heels with it (I lifts your butt and elongates you) Plus the men really dig that!!! Text your Man during the day you have a sexy surprise when he gets home...he will be thinking about come home ALL day! Come out of the Bathroom with it on, be cooking in it when he gets home (That's a real hit) FOOD, BOOBS, and LINGERIE! All kinds of stuff is happening in their brains...LOL Men are very simple straight forward creatures they just wanna have sex, they relate sex and love like we do...Honestly! One guy said "I just don't think she loves me anymore." I talked to her and she just feels fat..."Oh I've gained 20lbs." Her Husband doesn't care and still thinks she's beautiful....so why should we care? We shouldn't but Media and Society make us think we should ALL be a size 0, most men DON'T want that, I can assure you! My guy friends say they want some meat on their woman's bones. So go outside your comfort zone in 2012 and be SEXY, feel SEXY and that my friend is exactly what your Husband will be thinking too...STOP saying I'm FAT, my Boobs are too small...Who cares? They feel in love with you, not just your outside...
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