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Friday, December 30, 2011
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Happy Holidays! What's on everyone's mind? Lets get this Blog started right...Ask away and I will answer away! I'll warn you I'm straightforward and don't hold back...you can remain anonymous in your questions :)
All the online dating commercials are in full force with the upcoming new year. Thoughts on Match.com...the good, bad, ugly, and how you found your Mr. Wonderful! What tips do you have? Can't wait to read your fun new blog!
The bad...well people don't always look like their pictures and sometimes stretch their height a little! I had one guy who looked so Handsome in his profile pic that said he was 5'10...Ughh more like 5'8. We met up at a local eatery and when I saw him I recognized his face but his head was way smaller then his close up shot...He said i looked nice, I said it looks like you lied. I asked to see his DL and he asked why, I said I wanted to see if he lied to the DMV also! He laughed at me...there was no chemistry but we did stay friends. I met an alcoholic who every time we had a date (4) total he reeked of beer...His pupils would always be dilated! Geesh...Then the GOOD just when I was about to give up I found my Bucci! I have several friends who have met their spouses on Match.com, I think that's the best...avoid the FREE ones cause if they're too cheap to pay to be on Match they're probably not what were looking for :) If you are open, honest, basically translucent about your life and post several pics of your self you will have good luck...If a guy has several pics and look different in everyone...RUNNNNN FORREST RUN! There was this poor fellow "bless his heart" had these warts all over his face and neck, I made my girlfriend go on that date with me and made her sit by him! Ya couldn't see them in the pictures! After we left he text'd "You're Yummy"...creepy! Never called him back. The most important thing is make your list I've told y'all about the 10 things a guy/girl wants in a partner and when you go to mark the 3rd off the list (No matter how superficial they are) then 3 strikes they're out! At that point if you stay you are sacrificing your own happiness and you have to look out for number one which is yourself! Meet for a cup of coffee or a wine b/c in 30 mins you will know if there's chemistry or not. (I'll have to Blog about my "IT" factor theory later) If there is, then suggest going somewhere else to hangout longer...Also Men shouldn't do the site and take everyone out and pay for all those dinners...Save ya money fellows cause WOMEN lie too! It never hurts to Wink at someone on Match and see if they initiate an email back or another wink...I Winked at Brian! Look where it's got me now...Never been happier for a technological Wink in my life! Go for it cause you have NOTHING to lose. Just always be smart, meet in a lighted area and never go to their home or yours for the first time...I liked to always talk to the person on the phone first. I put on my profile I was just wanting to meet new people/make new friends see where it goes kinda thing, then that a way if they didn't do it for me I would always be honest and say "I can see us being friends but I don't feel a connection". That is the HARDEST part (but it gets easier until Mr. Right/Mrs. Right comes along), but think you're letting down basically a total stranger and not someone 3-6 months down the road!
All the online dating commercials are in full force with the upcoming new year. Thoughts on Match.com...the good, bad, ugly, and how you found your Mr. Wonderful! What tips do you have? Can't wait to read your fun new blog!
ReplyDeleteThe bad...well people don't always look like their pictures and sometimes stretch their height a little! I had one guy who looked so Handsome in his profile pic that said he was 5'10...Ughh more like 5'8. We met up at a local eatery and when I saw him I recognized his face but his head was way smaller then his close up shot...He said i looked nice, I said it looks like you lied. I asked to see his DL and he asked why, I said I wanted to see if he lied to the DMV also! He laughed at me...there was no chemistry but we did stay friends. I met an alcoholic who every time we had a date (4) total he reeked of beer...His pupils would always be dilated! Geesh...Then the GOOD just when I was about to give up I found my Bucci! I have several friends who have met their spouses on Match.com, I think that's the best...avoid the FREE ones cause if they're too cheap to pay to be on Match they're probably not what were looking for :) If you are open, honest, basically translucent about your life and post several pics of your self you will have good luck...If a guy has several pics and look different in everyone...RUNNNNN FORREST RUN! There was this poor fellow "bless his heart" had these warts all over his face and neck, I made my girlfriend go on that date with me and made her sit by him! Ya couldn't see them in the pictures! After we left he text'd "You're Yummy"...creepy! Never called him back. The most important thing is make your list I've told y'all about the 10 things a guy/girl wants in a partner and when you go to mark the 3rd off the list (No matter how superficial they are) then 3 strikes they're out! At that point if you stay you are sacrificing your own happiness and you have to look out for number one which is yourself! Meet for a cup of coffee or a wine b/c in 30 mins you will know if there's chemistry or not. (I'll have to Blog about my "IT" factor theory later) If there is, then suggest going somewhere else to hangout longer...Also Men shouldn't do the site and take everyone out and pay for all those dinners...Save ya money fellows cause WOMEN lie too! It never hurts to Wink at someone on Match and see if they initiate an email back or another wink...I Winked at Brian! Look where it's got me now...Never been happier for a technological Wink in my life! Go for it cause you have NOTHING to lose. Just always be smart, meet in a lighted area and never go to their home or yours for the first time...I liked to always talk to the person on the phone first. I put on my profile I was just wanting to meet new people/make new friends see where it goes kinda thing, then that a way if they didn't do it for me I would always be honest and say "I can see us being friends but I don't feel a connection". That is the HARDEST part (but it gets easier until Mr. Right/Mrs. Right comes along), but think you're letting down basically a total stranger and not someone 3-6 months down the road!
ReplyDeleteHa.Ha. Love the Run Forrest Ruuuunnn! Bad date stories really make you appreciate the great date stories.
ReplyDeleteThat's right and it really helps you know what you do and don't want in a Guy!
ReplyDeleteLady the list has tripled and I don't even care! LOL! Happy New Year!
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