DO people Just like being treated like Crap???

As I browse through my Face Book friends statuses and read how people are upset with their relationships, I can't help but wonder do people really realize that people treat you the way you allow them to. Period.  When you start a relationship you always want the upper hand, it's a must! You verbalize how you're going to be treated and that you are worthy of that kind of treatment because that's how you treat others. A lot of people (guys especially) don't get the "You treat me how you want others to treat you because they are pieces of you know what and have NO conscious." If you recognize this kind of behavior early on then you need to break free and RUN! Who cares if he/she's Hot, Hotness will fade over time then you're just stuck with a Jackass! Ultimately ending in a bad break up or Divorce if you are so blind and go that far...In reality the movies Stars are 10's, most of us aren't, we may have traits that are 10's...and those are the things that make a person who they are, it's called character! You want a person who you can totally be yourself around, and the other person love you no matter what...a guy or girl who is a 10 usually isn't gonna be there when you need them, because most of the time it's all about them. You want someone who puts you first and wants to take care of you through thick and thin...